A THOUGHT ABOUT THOUGHTS
Thoughts cannot be expressed exactly especially when it is clouded with emotions.
Ask lovers how they expressed their vows of life, they would say they struggled for the right words. Ask a mother about her first promise who had delivered a baby, she would say, she spoke in warm tears. When decoding the emotions of these wonderful moments there is always a beauty hidden which will not glitter in words of any poet. So who understands it clearly then? Who expresses it with mastery then?
A thought is diluted when it takes the form of a word and it is further diluted during the expression, needless to say the atmosphere and other disturbances which hinders the impact of the words then it is yet again diluted in the perception of the receiver. The beauty of the right thought is thus destroyed when you try to convey it. So in life we all miss many things, chances, opportunities, persons in course of this act.
You see in any formal relationship, say for instance, an interview, there is no space for silence. It is an acknowledgement of lack of spontaneity. There you have to hide your thoughts or the process of recollection with interjections and phrases. But the way you try to convey a thought, especially the time you take to mould the thought into a firm expression for the loved ones has to be conceived in the minds of both the receiver and the giver. There significantly happens the miracle. It’s never exact but its always understood and that’s what one needs in good relationship.Beauty lies in the beholder of the thought, for they are in peace always, as the truth lies within them.
The magic happens when you pop out the diluted word, not because you chose the right word but because both the minds worked on the same thought in silence and it doesn’t matter which word you choose to convey, the receiver is overjoyed and connected already as they have assimilated the silence, in the beautiful thought of the beholder, before the diluted word even existed. After all, in relationships, what we need other than understanding each other’s thoughts especially the emotional ones.